Thursday, February 04, 2010

Anything you can do, I can do better!!

Anything you can do,
I can do better.
I can do anything
Better than you!

I always liked being a girl. I also liked coming in first place, and I liked coming in first place as a girl. In high school I played more than my share of pranks, and I enjoyed never even being suspected because I was a good girl. As a girl I enjoyed winning back-to-back championships; don't even ask how bad the boys' basketball team was. In college I was a Criminal Justice major, which meant that as a girl, I was in a teeny-tiny minority. I enjoyed listening to a hundred beefy guys all around me brag on themselves for four years, knowing full well my private intention of graduating first in the class. And I did. In high heels. Anything you can do, I can do better.

Jesus said, "I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing."

The modern feminist movement wants us to enjoy and exploit our cleverness. We are supposed to think and act in a way that shows our ability to, as girls, out-smart, out-run, out-work, out-hustle the guys, and to do it all with ease, grinding their faces into the dirt with our Italian pink silk high heels.

The truth is, that is all disgusting pride. God designed us as women to share certain characteristics and traits, which is a good and appropriate thing. But before we start excusing our feminist behavior as natural, let's investigate to the motives beneath our behavior. Does self-sufficient pride lead to conceit and vanity? Does pride lead to a general belief in the incompetency of man? Does pride lead to a loud, abrasive, "I can do anything better than you! Yes, I can, YES, I CAN!!"

Our big pile of accomplishments, carefully and lovingly and angrily accumulated in our own cleverness and wiles, is our own indictment. And the judgment? "If anyone does not abide in me he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned."

Ladies, some of us, and I'm the biggest one here, have inner-feminists. This isn't the holy fruit that God intends us to bear; it's the result of carefully-nurtured pride. Left to ourselves, we will bring forth pride and conceit and vanity and death. The only solution is to look to Jesus: "Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me."

May God gives us much grace and enable us to bring forth much fruit and prove to be His disciples, women who intentionally and perseveringly live according to HIS design! (John 15:1-8)

8 comments:

Brie said...

WOW Jenn, this was amazing and just what I needed to hear today! Thank you!

Gayline said...

Yes, thank you Jen. Not only is the world telling us women we can do anything, be anything and be better, they are also telling us "We can do it ALL." And so I see women running themselves ragged trying to live up to that unattainable standard. Women are slowing dieing inside while maintaining the facade of happiness. God's ways are good,better,best,for they do bring real life, joy and peace. I look forward to examining the scriptures with you all to see how these things are so.

Sharon said...

Having been a young woman during the hey day of the feminist movement I can attest to the futility of it all. The message from the world was "its your turn"... "you need to be happy and the only way is to do your thing" Needless to say it worked out to be a disaster for me. Only in Christ is true contentment and happiness for a woman found. For it is in Him that we become who and what we were truly meant to be.

Anonymous said...

Most assuredly I will not rest until my good is better and my better best....ahhh, but may it me for the Glory of Holy God and NOT so I can prove that I am somebody, or that I am woman, hear me roar...and then pass out, from the unavoidable, unenviable exhaustion that comes when I crash from total burnout. I see it happening to women all around me.
Whether they/we work full-time outside the home, or whether they be full-time in the home, we must resist the temptation to believe the lie that we must be perfect and better than....

Sisters, Gayline, Brooke, Jen and Robin, I am truly looking forwatd to future blogs full of the grace, wisdom and beauty which Father has gifted you all with. Thank you!!!

Stephanie P.

Anonymous said...

Jenn,
Thank you for that post! I believe it is timely for our day and age especially a lot of the women in the church. For some reason (I used to think this way) women think that just because they submit to their husbands that makes them weak especially in the world's eyes! But it takes much strength to submit under God's authority and the headship of your husband or father if you are single. So submissiveness is a sign of much strength not to mention God's working of holiness and maturity in your spiritual walk with HIM! Thank you again!

Anonymous said...

Jenn,
Thanks for posting this. Wow - what a way to look at those verses. Your experiences at school are so much like mine, and your words are exactly what I need this week as I pray to be shown areas of pride in my own life. We females have patented our own specially tailored brand of pride. And it's sneaky. Like you said, it's so easy to be the quiet little girl in the corner everyone ignores (Yet inside, smugly holding myself over the rest, just biding my time until the light comes and they see how well I can beat them all at their own game.) How I need to remember that all this is NOT beauty. It's NOT success. Like you said,
"THE TRUTH IS, THAT IS ALL DISGUSTING PRIDE."
This week, I have the chance to turn that around by both acting and THINKING humility. And when that happens, God has the chance to shine HIS power through my weakness – as I do things not in my own strength, but his. Now, THAT is what will draw in the world.
Courtney

Phyllis P said...

Thanks for the post.
I do see that once again I failed.
My pride was exposed in a situation and I took it to the extreme. I should have kept my big mouth shut and didnt. We spent time discussing humility in group this week and I should have approached this situation differently. Thank God for his Spirit to expose such and your post. Also, thank God for forgiveness. Phil 2:8 And being found in appearance as a man. He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross.
And now, to fix the problem!
I will P U S H - Pray Until Something Happens. thanks for the eye opening posts this week.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for reading along, Phyllis! May we all see, as you did, not only our failure (i.e. SIN) but also God's forgiveness (i.e. the GOSPEL).

 
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